Are You a Connector?
By tsufit on Oct 5, 2009 in Books, Networking
So I’m at this networking meeting a few years ago, just me and 299 other entrepreneurs. As I walk in they hand me a name tag, some paper–I stuff it in my bag (I’m not really the lanyard type–I only just learned the word. Imagine surviving 5 decades, half a century, without that choice piece of vocab) and proceed to meet the peeps. I like this part. I’m a kid in a candy store. And meet the peeps I did as I always do. As I’m leaving, I hand back the name tag (it’s plastic–recycle, save the planet and all that…yeah tree hugger that’s me…) and I notice it says the word “Connector” under my name. I asked the chick behind the desk what that means and she tells me that I was one of 10 “Connectors” ( a great honor apparently) that everyone else was supposed to try and meet (and perhaps sign their paper, dunno, as you may recall, I stuffed mine in my bag.) So I’m a Connector huh? Not too shabby.
This afternoon, I received a chunky package (aren’t they always the most exciting) bearing Maribeth Kuzmeski’s new book, The Connectors and I’m curious to see what it’s all about. I must admit that I’m usually more interested in reading books about branding or behavioural economics than networking ’cause to me it’s all pretty natural, but many people tell me they dread networking, feel lousy at making connections and would rather sleep in to avoid the whole scene, so the target audience for this book is huge. If you’re one of them, check out The Connectors and let me know what you thought!

Tsufit,
So thrilled I met you today and I absolutely love your energy – I’d go to the next one just to see what you throw next time.
Remember the book I couldn’t remember I was reading? It is: “Opposable Mind: Winning Through Integrative Thinking
by Roger L. Martin” – excellent book. When I’m done this, I’d probably want to grab yours to laugh (and learn).
Also, I could absolutely believe you’re a great connector – one of Malcolm Gladwell’s book “tipping point” also talks about connectors. People like you can light incredible fires for ‘regular’ people, so yes, it would be a great honour to be labeled as such.
Daisy
Daisy | Oct 8, 2009 | Reply
Daisy,
Thanks for stopping by! Another intriguing book is Predictably Irrational by Dan Ariely.
Tsufit
tsufit | Oct 8, 2009 | Reply
Everyone knows that relationships are important in business. Yet most people would admit that their relationships could be better—but don’t spend time working on the underlying skills. This book explains how to develop better, more profitable connections—as illustrated proven by some of the world’s most successful professionals.
r4i kort | Nov 24, 2009 | Reply